Bitcoind gui client, wallet client with peer preference, node manager

first time user here so politely point out any thing I have done wrong.

I am looking for three things, but first let me explain the situation and use case:

• I am using bitcond full node on a headless FreeBSD OS server. There is no GUI of any kind.
• I am able to use CLI RPC (from an SSH session) to send commands to bitcoind. It works but I'm not a fan of it. I'm able to view account and wallet detail.

I would like to have working, using very secure technology/products:

• A very secure 'remote wallet' GUI client that can 'connect' to bitcoind over the IP network. Use case will be 99.999% local LAN only, but if I want to allow it via WAN/Internet I can. I realize the risks involved doing that over the Internet, but that is what I am looking for.
• A bitcoind full node GUI manager. Please do the not confuse this with the first. This application allows me to use a GUI to securely manage the node itself, via IP. I'm guessing this would also be via RPC.
• A wallet manager application like Armory, but one that allows me to configure it to securely peer only with my full node. Thus when I make transactions, the transactions are securely between my local PC wallet and my node.

See what I mean? I've done lots of looking, but no luck yet. Much thanks all.

yup, see what you mean. Hopefully my answer is not disappointing. It is to my knowledge not existant. I'd reason this way: I don't think it's the application, which should secure the network layer. Vice versa is the way to go on (layered approach). Create a secure network layer, and run the app on top of it. Otherwise all apps would build their own security layer, and I doubt there are enough security specialists...

The layers of the underlying OS allows to achieve security.

A very secure 'remote wallet' GUI:

define secure :-) Well, why not tunnel X over a VPN or through ssh?

A bitcoind full node GUI manager:

is the same.

A wallet manager application:

again, security built into the app is against principle of layers. You can tell your full node, from which IP to connect.